If you are reading this post, then I assume you are tired of controlling every outcome of your life and decided to trust the universe. You have opted to surrender to the universe to see what more excellent plan the universe has for you.
Good decision. This post is gonna change the way you think about your life, and you will have your answers to the questions you might be asking for a long time.
Why is it always me?
Even if you have reached here accidentally, please read on. This would be an eye-opening moment for you too.
Why your plan gets messed up all the time
We decided to let go and trust the universe because whatever we do with our lives always gets messed up. So, in the latter part of this post, we will discuss how to trust the universe, when to trust the universe, and most importantly, how to turn the table to our advantage and not mess up again.
Before going to all those, we need to understand why we mess up again and again clearly. Is it always our fault? How to know which decision to take. Most importantly, if I get to decide which one I should take, how do I know this is the one decision the universe wants me to take, And how do I trust the universe. Let’s explore this before we go to any other.
When we examine any situation or event in your life, for example, your car got into an accident, your business failure, relationship failure, whatever it is, at any point of time, your reality is created by the tug of war between
- Your conventional plan
- Your beliefs
- The plan of the universe
- Your conscious brew plan
Let’s explore each of them to understand the situation better.
Your conventional plan
This is part of you who wants to control every outcome of your life. Just examining one day of your life, we will have a lot of examples for it. For example
- You want your kids to behave like how you want them to be
- You want your kids to be toppers in academics.
- You want your partner to be like ………
- You want your job to pay you ……….
- You want a promotion on…….. and pay you …………
- You want a job in ………… pays you …………
- You want your business to perform ………….. this year.
You might be thinking, these all are good things only. And it will promote growth in my business and life and helps teach my kids discipline. You are right. Tell me how it is working for you so far.
I am not against discipline or growth. In fact, we must try new things in life and grow every day and become the best version of ourselves at any point in time. But what we have seen above is not promoting our growth. On the contrary, it’s limiting our growth to the finite mind of ourselves.
We are trying to control every outcome of each action we are taking. Though humans have a very complex and well-developed brain, we are not the center of the universe. Our brain and thoughts have limitations. There are more extraordinary powers and thoughts far more significant than what we have. That’s the simplest reason I can tell you why we mess up all the time.
So trying to control everything with our finite mind is one reason for the failures we are having. That’s also the reason why we don’t trust the universe.
What could be the other reasons
In the world of the law of attraction, it is believed that your belief creates your reality. I believe it too. It doesn’t matter whatever you do; the reality you face in every life event is based on what you believe.
The most common example of this is a financial journey. We might want to create wealth, and we do all those things which can make money. But whatever we do, we end up in scarcity, more and more bills pile up. The root cause for messing up here might be our belief.
Inside of you, you might be believing money is evil; I don’t deserve money. You have to work hard to make money. All those beliefs are acting against your wish of creating money, and you know what the result is. You find it difficult to create money. Even though you create some, that money will leave you very fast with some unexpected expenses. And you mess up again.
This is true about everything happening in our life. So now let’s go to the other reason.
The plan of the universe
We, Humans, are very divine creatures. We are creators of our own reality. But For us to create, we have to become the best version of ourselves. But, even without being the best version of ourselves, we can create our reality.
But those realities may not be in alignment with the greater good of the cosmos. So only when you are consciously creating your reality or you being the best version of yourself, your creation is in alignment with the universe’s more excellent plan.
As discussed before, your creation of reality is based on a tug of war between your plan, belief, plan of the universe, and conscious creation.
Universe has a plan for you. The goal is to enlighten you about the reality of the universe and channel you towards the greater good of everyone through your creation. But most of the time, when you are in a messed-up situation, your universe’s plan and its guidance have less effect on you because your belief and other factors are in strength.
But the universe wants you to come back and be in alignment with the universal energy of creation. So they try to wake you from sleep often. Sometimes they take some effort and create a new reality that can mess up your plan too. So I see it as a wake-up call or universe trying not to lose you forever. But most of the time, we can’t make out the message, and we are lost again.
The final word, the universe has a plan for you, and sometimes it can mess up your plan.
Your conscious brew plan
The conscious brew is the word I created. It means consciously brewing your life. If you have decided to take control of your life and not just react to every situation, you are in your conscious brew plan. Here we evaluate everything about our life, like our beliefs, actions that lead to our reality.
Once we control our life, not the outcome, we can channel our energy towards a goal, like living our life to the fullest ability or being happy all the time. Here we try to remove all the negative beliefs that interfere with our plan. This is conscious living until we are sure our default beliefs and reality are what we want with our life.
In the conscious brew plan, you have the advantage over all other factors we have discussed before. So this plan can also interfere with your reality.
The tug of war
Every day there are millions of events happening in your life. Some will be significant events while others are usual kinds of things. But it is happening. What if I tell you all those things happening in your life are created by you. Every event and every outcome of it is created by you, either consciously or unconsciously. Only a few are wake-up calls from the universe, but that is also created by you, just not this time frame.
It’s like the alarm you put today to wake you up or remind you of something sometime in the future, and that future is today. I am not going deep into this topic. It’s beyond the scope of this post.
So every event in my life is a tug of war between all the energy we discussed before. For example, your planning will be interfering with the plan of the universe. Those two will be interfering with what you truly believe inside. Sometimes you have decided to create your reality consciously, and those decisions are interfering with all others.
So at any point in time, it’s a tug of war, and the outcome you are getting is based on who wins the war.
Ok, now we understood that we are again messed up. But the good news is, now we know what is messing up. Once we see the problem, there is always a solution.
This post will discuss how to solve this problem and move towards the plan universe has for you for the greater good.
How to know if a plan is for the greater good and trust the universe
If a plan is for the greater good, then most probably, it will be the universe’s plan. So trust the universe on this for now until proved otherwise. In the later part, we will discuss how to know if this plan is a universes plan.
To know if a plan is for the greater good, all you have to do is observe the plan. Evaluate it. What could be the result of it? Don’t try to control the outcome. Just evaluate it.
Now apply the five-year rule. After 5 years, do you think this plan is still applicable to you? Does this bring you good results after 5 years? What about after 10 years.
An unbiased evaluation, if you think this plan of action will bring you good and uplift you in your life in 5 years or 10 years, then most probably it is a plan with a greater good.
I am linking a video below by Andrew Kirby, which explains the effect of time on our actions which I felt fascinating and eye-opening. Watch it. I highly recommend it.
What is trusting the universe really means
We, humans, are very complex beings with higher levels of thoughts and control. However, it doesn’t mean we can control everything. In fact, the more we try to control anything, the more we lose control of the same.
So trusting the universe means understanding the truth that there is more to this universe than you and your thoughts. And accepting that the universe has a better plan for you that you cannot know until you surrender to the universe’s cause.
The cause of the universe could be to exist to its fullest potential. So for it to live to its fullest potential, everything within the universe should do the same. That includes you and me.
That being said, it’s time to get rid of our egos and surrender to the universe, which has the answer for everything. If you need the solution, there is no other way; trust the universe and let go.
Still can’t get rid of your ego. Ok, show me where you are on this map.
Perhaps in this map
So, accept it; it is not about You or me. We are just one species, and there have been many species before us, some of which don’t exist anymore.
The point being, we are just one another creation, and the universe has given us the gift of creation as well. So our duty is to create a happy and fulfilling life we want to live every second of the day, which aligns with the greater good of the universe.
Why do you need to trust the universe?
In the previous post, I have discussed the universal energy which is connecting everything in this universe. This energy is the key to the universe, every knowledge, every material, and everything in this universe. We are tapping into this energy knowingly or unknowingly every day in our life.
If we can tap into this energy, attract this energy to our life, that’s the key to living a happy and fulfilled life filled with everything we wished in our life. Every wish of ours will come to life because everything is just energy in the eyes of the ultimate universe, and there is no weight on any kind of energy. So if you can harness this energy into your life, you can have anything in this universe irrespective of how everyone thinks about it.
To attract that kind of success, all you have to do is trust the universe and let go. This has been the basis of the law of attraction. So trusting the universe can bring anything into your life, including love, happiness, money, luck, bliss, fun, and joy.
I think that’s a pretty good reason to trust the universe.
Till now, we have been talking about the concept. Now let’s discuss the real and practical question.
How can you trust the universe?
How to fully trust the universe and let go
I am glad that you have decided to trust the universe and go with the more fantastic plan. I am sure trusting the universe is gonna open doors for you, which you have never thought possible. This is gonna be an incredible journey. Are you ready?
Do you know how trust works? Let me explain. If you have a statement of hypothesis. For example, the law of attraction really works. Now we add some stories, situations, proofs, emotions, and research studies into it. If the things we add to it are positive and reinforcing, that results in more and more trust. If the things adding into it are negative and work against your statement, that results in more and more of not believing it. The result is based on who wins in the tug of war.
I hope now you understand why they say, surround yourself with successful people.
So to make yourself believe in anything, be at the right place, with the right community all the time. They will reinforce you and help you to be successful.
Understand that controlling every outcome won’t work
By this point, you might have understood that controlling your outcome will do no good for you in the long run. In fact, it will do the opposite. So the first thing to do towards the greater good is to detach from the outcome of any action you are taking. Make it a habit of thinking that whatever is good for me is going to come to me. For any action you take, this should be the thought you must have about the outcome.
Finding out the root cause
If there is a problem, there always will be a cause for it. If the cause can be identified, there will be a solution as well. Just because you can’t come up with the cause and solution for your problem doesn’t mean it is not there.
So how can we find the cause for our problem?
To find the deep cause for your problem, you need to be willing to accept the truth. You can’t blame anyone for what’s happening in your life because of the truth; you are responsible for them.
At this point, it will be difficult for you to understand this. But at least believe this, If you don’t take responsibility for things happening in your life, you are not even in the game. So take responsibility for the actions you take in your life and all the things happening in your life.
Sometimes you have to let go of your logic and take action.
Suppose you have decided on changing your life and taking full responsibility. In that case, it’s time to evaluate why bad things happen in your life. I have said it once, at any point in time, your reality is created by the tug of war between
- Your conventional plan
- Your beliefs
- The plan of the universe
- Your conscious brew plan
You need to remember that you are creating your own reality at any point in time. So if you are not consciously creating, not voluntarily involved in the creation, you are probably unconsciously creating your reality. This means your reality at any point in time is based on your subconscious belief about the same.
If you believe you can’t trust your friend or partner, then that’s what your reality is. If you believe you are a lucky man, luck will come to you in magical ways to strengthen your belief that you are a lucky man. That’s how it works.
Troubleshooting your reality
Now we know the template on how to find the root cause of all our problems. So let’s troubleshoot our reality and see what is causing the problems in our life so it will be easy for us to trust the universe and regain our strength.
Now take some time to evaluate your life. Why do you think you can’t trust the universe? Come up with all the issues or events in your life which made you feel that you can’t trust the universe and write it down one by one.
Your next step is to prioritize all the things in your life. From one to ten, how much weight each problem has, ten being the strongest reason for not trusting the universe and one being the least.
Now let’s tackle the big guy. Take the strongest one and examine yourself. For this example, I take financial problems as an example. So the problem here is
I don’t trust the universe because the law of attraction says it is easy to attract money and wealth. All you have to do is ask the universe for it, but I tried, and every time I try, I fail, and new bills come in my way, which is precisely the opposite of what I want.
As we said before, if you are not creating your reality consciously, then you are creating unconsciously. If you are creating unconsciously, it is your belief that determines what your reality is. So in here, we have two actions which we have control of
- what you do to create consciously
- What beliefs you have which work against your financial freedom
To change what you have in your reality and trust the universe, you need to start consciously creating your reality. Are you doing it now? If not, do it. That’s the way you can strengthen your relationship with the universe. About the belief…
Searching for negative belief
Your subconscious mind has a lot of belief in it. Some are positive, while some are negative. All your negative beliefs are gonna hurt you. They will flow energy against your positive belief.
For example, If your belief about money is: business is an easy way to create money, which is positive, and you started a business. But subconsciously, you also believe money is hard to come by. Therefore, money is the cause of all problems in my family, society, and the world.
Only rich people make money. All these beliefs can flow energy against your positive belief, and you know what could be next. A constant tug of war and your reality is the result of who wins the tug of war.
So apart from taking actions to consciously create your reality, it is essential to evaluate all your beliefs. In fact, changing your belief is gonna have the maximum effect on your law of attraction journey.
To identify the belief you have that can works against your dream, the key here is to observe and pay attention.
Observe and pay attention
Let’s make this section more useful. This is a seven-day task. You have your core problems that work against your dream and which make you not trust the universe. Take that one problem. From today to the past seven days, observe all situations and events you remember about the problem. Play that in your mind. Observe the things you spoke, your feelings, and everything you could remember, which you think could have worked against your dream.
In those patterns lies your belief. So examine everything.
It could be like
- money is hard to make
- Money will leave as soon as it comes to your life
- Money made him do that crime
- Money is not a good thing
- Even though I work very hard, I couldn’t make money
- I always get unexpected expenses
There could be more. All of these beliefs are negative root beliefs that can work against your dream.
Now the next task is to pay attention for the next one week. When a situation arrives, what you are talking about and what your feelings are. That could also give you an idea about your negative belief that you can work against trusting the universe.
Release what is no longer serving you to provide room for new things
We know that the negative belief you are having is not serving you. In fact, it’s acting against you. So what you need to do is release those negative beliefs, remove them and fill them with positive and uplifting beliefs.
When you can successfully do that, your reality will start changing, and you will start believing in the universe.
We have made a significant step to stop flowing energy against trusting the universe and attracting our desired life. Now it’s time to do some good actions which can push through the walls and get us where we want to be. Those are
Journaling to trust the universe
Journaling is a great way to improve your mood, reflect on your day, and find out if anything is hurting your plan.
You know the key to trusting is reinforcing your hypothesis or statement with positive stories, events, and beliefs. Journaling is an excellent way for that.
Journaling can help you to reflect on your day and actions and how you reacted to them. It allows you to find out your beliefs, what is helping you and what is not, and make sure your days are not wasted, that you are evolving every day step by step. It is a great way to make yourself accountable for your life.
Apart from that, writing a journal can help you release all the negative feelings and helps you feel good. If you are into the law of attraction, you know how important it is. So if you are not journaling, don’t wait for a perfect moment. Do it now, just take a paper and pen and write something about yourself or today. You can improve your writing and writing techniques on the way, not when you are starting. So start now.
Showing gratitude To trust the universe.
Showing gratitude is another great way to trust the universe. It’s simple, you have asked for a gift from anyone you know. They have given you the same thing you asked for or even better. Tell me what they would feel if you ask them for another gift without telling them a simple thanks. Unfortunately, that’s what’s happening with our life.
There is a slight difference when coming to the universe. When the universe gives you what you have asked for, and you didn’t show gratitude, how does the universe know that’s what you want? There are no emotions, feelings, or any energy in it. In fact, with all those struggles you are having, you channel a strong emotion and feeling for them. That means you feel them more than those that you asked for it. So the universe started providing you what made you feel and what energy you are channeling to the universe. But, unfortunately, in most people’s cases, it’s not what they actually wanted.
The antidote, feel for what you want. The best way is to show gratitude for everything you have and everything you wanted, which the universe has already provided. To all the signs the universe has given you, which can lead you to what you wanted. It is a powerful technique. Use it well.
The more you show gratitude, the more the universe provides you, leading to trusting the universe more.
Connecting with the universe and your unseen friends
You can feel them only if you think about someone. It’s the same case for the universe. Only if you think about the universe, only you can feel them, then only you can know them at a deeper level, then only you can trust them. So how to know about a person, you just talk to them and ask what you want to know. So I suggest you do the same with the universe.
I would suggest you do meditation for this. That can have a good impact on your relationship with the universe or higher self. I always talk to my higher self during my meditation. It’s simple, you visualize they are there with you in the place you are most comfortable, and you talk to them. Sometimes you feel you are making up everything. It’s ok. Fake it until you make it. That’s how I did it, and it worked for me.
So in your meditation, you just connect with the universe, like you being part of the universe, which opens a channel between you and the universe, through which the universe starts to guide you.
Just stop thinking, meditate for a week and then talk. I am sure you will have all the proof to reinforce and believe this statement of mine.
Self-awareness simply means knowing yourself. Increasing self-awareness is vital because you don’t want to go back to the old times and react to everything in your life. Instead, what you need is to consciously create everything you need in your life. For that, self-awareness is essential.
To increase your self-awareness, the journal you have started will help you to a great extent. Apart from that, always be aware of what you are thinking, talking, feeling, and doing. You want to make sure everything is in alignment with what you want in your life. Self-awareness will unfold everything about you. By taking positive actions on what unfolds, you will never doubt your universe again.
Listen to your intuition.
Do you know what intuition is? It is some inner knowledge that gets surfacing in your mind. It’s like your mind is trying to talk to you about something. It sometimes is a strong feeling. What I believe is this intuition is the messages you get from someone who wants to guide you to have a better future. Someone who sends you the messages could be anyone you believe in, your guardian angel, spirit, the ultimate universe, higher self, and future self. It could be anyone.
The point here is to listen to those messages and act upon them. Those messages are here to help you. So follow them. The more you follow, the more messages you will get. Because they will send you messages only if you are getting those, picking up and doing something about it. The key here is to continuously observe and pay attention.
Apart from that, you can ask your unseen friends with whom you are working, sending you more messages which you can easily understand. So follow your intuition, which can also open a wide door for you to trust the universe and unlock a more fantastic future of possibilities.
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